We walk around with a crushing debt we never signed for. It’s the debt of expectation. We owe our parents a “stable” career. We owe our partners a “consistent” mood. …
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We aren’t just born; we are downloaded. By the time you’re old enough to realize you have a choice, your mental filing cabinet is already stuffed with folders you didn’t …
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There is a specific kind of exhaustion that comes from maintaining a version of yourself that was designed by other people. It’s the weight of the “Proper Woman” folder. The …